Stop Trying to “Handle” Objections

By Aleasha | Oct 19, 2025 | 0 Comments

Most sales advice teaches you to overcome objections like it is a battle. That mindset instantly kills trust. When someone raises a concern, they are not trying to challenge you; they are trying to understand you. Treating objections like something to “handle” turns a conversation into a competition. The Black Sheep Sales Method views objections […]

Why Sales Confidence Has Nothing to Do with Personality

By Aleasha | Oct 12, 2025 | 0 Comments

Most people assume confidence in sales comes from being loud, outgoing, or charismatic. That could not be further from the truth. Real confidence has nothing to do with how big your personality is. It comes from clarity. When you know exactly what you offer, who it helps, and why it matters, confidence naturally follows. The […]

Stop Pitching. Start Listening.

By Aleasha | Oct 5, 2025 | 0 Comments

Most sales calls fail before they even start because the seller is too focused on what to say next. When you’re so worried about your pitch, you miss what your prospect is actually telling you. The best closers aren’t talkers — they’re listeners. Listening builds trust faster than any clever one-liner ever will. When you […]

Why Awkward Sells Better Than Fake

By Aleasha | Sep 29, 2025 | 0 Comments

Ever been on a sales call where the other person sounded like they were reading straight from a script? You probably tuned out. That’s because people can smell fake from a mile away. The truth is, nobody wants a performance — they want a conversation. And yes, even if you feel awkward, that’s way more […]

Gimmick-Free Ways to Overcome “Let Me Think About It”

By Aleasha Bahr | Jul 26, 2022 | 0 Comments

Do you keep hearing “let me think about it” and feeling frustrated with how to get them to actually move forward – FASTER? It’s such a delicate balance. How can you save the sale or at least get clarity on what the hell they need to “think about” without coming off pushy and desperate (what […]

The Power of Emotions in Sales

By Aleasha Bahr | Jul 26, 2022 | 0 Comments

People will buy more to avoid pain than to gain desire/pleasure.  Have you heard that before? It’s the primary reason behind the pain/shame selling strategy that focuses on the “cost of inaction” or in other words – how awful your life will look if you don’t work with me. And on a scientific level it’s […]

The Sneaky Steep Costs of Shame Selling

By Aleasha Bahr | Jul 26, 2022 | 0 Comments

Have you heard of or experienced shame selling? It’s not new but it seems to be most popular in the online coaching/consulting space and has far reaching negative effects on results for both people involved. It focuses heavily on “the cost of inaction” – vividly painting just how bad your life will be if you […]

How to Build a High-Performing Sales Team – Compensation, Culture & Accountability

By Aleasha Bahr | Jul 26, 2022 | 0 Comments

So, you’re thinking of hiring a salesperson? You’ve reached that point where you no longer can (or want) to take sales calls because you’re so busy fulfilling – congrats!!! This is a very exciting situation to be in but each time it happens, without fail, I see entrepreneurs make the exact same mistakes. Hiring salespeople can […]

The Unintentional Damage of the “Pre-Contract” In a Sales Conversation – And A More Effective Alternative

By Aleasha Bahr | Jul 26, 2022 | 0 Comments

You will sell 100% more if you treat a meeting like a conversation. I know that sounds oversimplified but let me explain how to do this.  To avoid this post going TOO long – I will focus only on the beginning of the sales conversation for now. There’s this thing sales experts call a “pre-contract” […]

Is Agitating Fear and Pain the Most Effective Sales Strategy?

By Aleasha Bahr | Jul 26, 2022 | 0 Comments

Do you have a resistance to “agitating pain” in your sales process? Guess what – IT DOESN’T MEAN YOU’RE “BAD AT SALES” (YOU’RE ACTUALLY PROBABLY GOOD AT SALES). This is especially true for introverts – people who are drained by human interaction and need to recharge alone before/after. Poking at prospect’s sore spots repeatedly and […]

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